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“I have used the Pages of Testimony as a therapeutic tool since the mid-1990s. Helping survivors complete biographical information for each person they want to memorialize enables them to externalize their pain. Many also find some peace of mind by knowing they have fulfilled their “holy mission” to never let the world forget what happened to their murdered family members and friends.
Each page gives a name to a formerly anonymous victim and fulfills survivors’ responsibility to bear witness. These pages are stored in The Hall of Names - a paper cemetery - that provides a final resting place for their loved ones, and preserves their memory for future generations. In the words of one survivor: “It lessens my pain.”
Sometimes this process leads to a surprise discovery. For example, I helped the late Karol Weiner complete a Page of Testimony in 1999 as part of his healing process. This led to the reunification of his siblings after his death – the Schlick/ Glasberg reunion featured in your video. Heart-warming moments like these underscore the importance of this tool and inspire my on-going work with Holocaust survivors.”
“Most Holocaust survivors undertook a “holy mission” to never let the world forget what happened to their murdered family members and friends, and their destroyed communities. Some believe living with these memories, and associated pain, helps them remember their losses and honors their commitment to pass on this legacy. Consequently, many survivors resist working through their grief, losses, and guilt for having survived. They feel that letting go of their pain and suffering betrays their family and friends. This responsibility is internalized and carried throughout their lives.
Survivors can fulfill their commitment in other ways that are less harmful to their well-being. I find helping survivors complete a Page of Testimony for each person they want to memorialize is an effective therapeutic tool. It allows them to externalize their pain and find some peace by knowing they have fulfilled their holy mission. These pages are placed in the Hall of Names in the Yad Vashem Museum. This paper cemetery provides a final resting place for their loved ones and preserves their memory for future generations. In the words of one survivor: “It lessens my pain.” [Excerpt from forthcoming book on empowering Holocaust survivors to cope with genocidal trauma by Myra Giberovitch.]
Myra Giberovitch, M.S.W.
Consultant and Therapist
Montreal, Canada
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Sent: Tuesday, May 26, 2009 11:29 AM
Subject: RE: Feedback on Pages of Testimony submitted
It is truly a labor of love and a privilege. I feel as if I'm playing a part in helping give the Victims somewhat of an extension to their lives in this world. It's an incredible feeling to realize that they would otherwise be completely forgotten and truly obliterated.
It is very time consuming when one tries to get detailed, accurate information. For example I estimate I spent 6-7 hours with the Kanners on three different occasions and yesterday, about two hours with the Schoenbrots, who gave 11 POT's. The provider's mind wanders in memories and one must help them focus. The dialog is always very delicate as its often very painful for the provider, so one must proceed slowly to gain their trust and put them at ease.
I think this is the most meaningful and rewarding thing I have ever done in my life!. I wish I could do it full time.
Best regards,
Bill
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To: 'cynthiawroclawski@yadvashem.org.il'
Subject: Bar/Bat-Mitzvah Holocaust Memorial
Project of the Montreal Holocaust Memorial Centre
(Canada)
Dear
Ms. Wroclawski,
My son,
a namesake of my grandfather, Michael, a Holocaust
victim, twinned for his Bar-Mitzvah with a Holocaust
child, Yitzchak Yaakov Dragun. Yitzchak Yaakov lived in
the town of Zuromin, Poland, the same town in which my
grandfather had lived and perished in a concentration
camp without ever having a Bar Mitzvah. I wondered if
perhaps this boy and/or his family had known my
grandfather and even my late father.
Using
the online Database, I found the name of the district in
which Zuromin was located and the Page of Testimony for
Yitzchak Yaakov Dragun. According to Yad Yashem, both
his parents and a sister had perished with him. A friend
in Israel looked up the family name and discovered a
surviving brother and his family. He sent them material
from the Bar-Mitzvah and they immediately phoned me.
The surviving brother, now 86 years old, while overjoyed
that his late, little brother had been commemorated, was
too overcome with emotion to speak with me. I did,
however, speak with both his daughter and his wife. Out
of five siblings, two brothers had survived the War and
settled in Israel. The Dragun family later sent a gift
to my son, Mikey, and put us in touch with others who
had lived in Zuromin. As I had hoped, some of these
survivors had known my grandfather. They sent me the
Yizkor book of Zuromin which mentions my grandfather’s
house, used as Nazi headquarters by the Germans. We
also received a family portrait of the entire Dragun
family, taken just before the outbreak of the War, and
sent to a distant cousin in South America. By this
circuitous route, we are now able to put a face to the
name of this boy, and to see him as flesh and blood,
rather than a name or a number.
In
closing, I would like you to know that my daughter,
Gabrielle, who is to be Bat-Mitzvahed next spring, has
agreed to twin her ceremony with Yitzchak Yaakov’s late
sister, who also died in the Shoah. This unique program
has bridged continents, generations and time itself,
ensuring that records and memories become the very
fabric of the here and now. The Jewish family lives on.
Sincerely Yours,
Sarah Michaela Reingewirtz (Samra)
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To: 'cynthiawroclawski@yadvashem.org.il'
Subject: Bar/Bat-Mitzvah Holocaust Memorial
Project of the Montreal Holocaust Memorial Centre
(Canada)
Dear
Ms. Wroclawski,
My son,
a namesake of my grandfather, Michael, a Holocaust
victim, twinned for his Bar-Mitzvah with a Holocaust
child, Yitzchak Yaakov Dragun. Yitzchak Yaakov lived in
the town of Zuromin, Poland, the same town in which my
grandfather had lived and perished in a concentration
camp without ever having a Bar Mitzvah. I wondered if
perhaps this boy and/or his family had known my
grandfather and even my late father.
Using
the online Database, I found the name of the district in
which Zuromin was located and the Page of Testimony for
Yitzchak Yaakov Dragun. According to Yad Yashem, both
his parents and a sister had perished with him. A friend
in Israel looked up the family name and discovered a
surviving brother and his family. He sent them material
from the Bar-Mitzvah and they immediately phoned me.
The surviving brother, now 86 years old, while overjoyed
that his late, little brother had been commemorated, was
too overcome with emotion to speak with me. I did,
however, speak with both his daughter and his wife. Out
of five siblings, two brothers had survived the War and
settled in Israel. The Dragun family later sent a gift
to my son, Mikey, and put us in touch with others who
had lived in Zuromin. As I had hoped, some of these
survivors had known my grandfather. They sent me the
Yizkor book of Zuromin which mentions my grandfather’s
house, used as Nazi headquarters by the Germans. We
also received a family portrait of the entire Dragun
family, taken just before the outbreak of the War, and
sent to a distant cousin in South America. By this
circuitous route, we are now able to put a face to the
name of this boy, and to see him as flesh and blood,
rather than a name or a number.
In
closing, I would like you to know that my daughter,
Gabrielle, who is to be Bat-Mitzvahed next spring, has
agreed to twin her ceremony with Yitzchak Yaakov’s late
sister, who also died in the Shoah. This unique program
has bridged continents, generations and time itself,
ensuring that records and memories become the very
fabric of the here and now. The Jewish family lives on.
Sincerely Yours,
Sarah Michaela Reingewirtz (Samra)
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To: feedback@yadvashem.org.il
Subject: Database of Names
I am a
35 year old lawyer in Toronto and have just spent an
hour using the Database of Names. I have to admit that
my hands were shaking as I typed in the last names of my
family and their towns in Poland. It was an extremely
moving experience to see my family history located in
the database. In most cases the information is from
testimony given by friends or neighbours whom I don’t
know and dates from the mid 1950’s, so it is certainly
more current than the information I get from my 88 year
old Zayde – the only one left from that generation.
It is a
wonderful thing you have done – not only keeping the
memories alive, but allowing those of us far away to
look back into those memories that are quickly fading.
I am still shaking a bit as I write this e-mail to you.
Orie H.
Niedzviecki
Toronto,
Canada
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To: feedback@yadvashem.org.il
Subject: Thanks...
To whom
it may concern,
Thanks
for the initiative of putting Holocaust victims' names
in an online searchable archive.
A truly
magnificent effort.
With
best regards,
Piotr
Wisniewski
Warsaw,
Poland
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To: feedback@yadvashem.org.il
Subject: The Central Database
Ladies and Gentleman,
Just want to take a moment to thank you for your
outstanding work on making this information available on
a web site. To my knowledge we do not have any ancestors
who were victimized in the Holocaust however, I am
delighted to be able to access so many stories of those
who were. I share them with my children and help them to
see what was done and hopefully help them to become part
of the solution to make sure that this NEVER happens
again to anyone's family. My deepest appreciation and
congratulations!
Most Sincerely,
Kim Inks
Lindon, UT
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To: feedback
Subject: Thank You
Thank
you for compiling the database of Holocaust victims
names. I was able to confirm all that had been handed
down from one generation to another by finding relatives
listed here.
This is
an awesome project because no one should ever forget.
Thank
you again,
Lee Ann
Sontheimer Murphy
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To:
feedback
Subject: thanks
Often,
when I think of the Holocaust, I conjure up images of
emaciated people in striped prison uniforms.
These
people are easy to put in a box. I see images of ghastly
executions, but they are of these "boxed people."
Your
site shows people before they have spent months in a
camp. It shows people who look like, well, just folks,
which is the reality of the situation. Thanks for
bringing that home.
Yvonne
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